Ronald is the typical Chinese man, every time we go out he won't hold my hand, he won't text me too when we go travel, that is why there is one time when we went out just the two of us (the girls are in school that time),I get pissed off, then inside the car I told him about my feelings I almost cried out sa sobrang inis, I told him that why he is like that like he is ashamed nor embrassed to have me in his side, so I said also it's fine with me if he wants it that way as long as he is happy. Then about another time we went out again, I just let him walked while I walked slowly then suddenly I noticed he is not walking and told me that why I'm not walking that fast, he is waiting for me, and just hold my hand, I was so happy that he did that, then yesterday when we went out to buy our food for lunch, inside the car, I told him, you know what your not texting me when you arrive your destination or whatsoever, I read an article saying that husband should do that to show how much you love your wife, so that afternoon as soon as he reached his destination he texted me, and one thing that really makes me happy is that before he went to sleep he text me goodnight and I LOVE YOU. yes he seldom sent message to me like that, so yesterday was a different one.
For years that I've been with Ronald, I knew he loved me, he's the man who don't use words but instead use action to express his love for me, like when we are looking for a house he will asked my opinion about the house, when we do renovation, he will still consider my opinion of the floors and colors, when he will come home late, he will tell me who and where he is going, things like these are some of his qualities that I appreciate, and every night I will asked him to stay beside me and he will be there even he wants to watch tv, we will just talked and talked about anything and before we go to sleep he will make me laugh so hard with all his funny jokes. I just love how he is right now, that I can see he listen to what I want to tell him, make effort to show me how important I am to him.
I just love him all the more as days pass by, the more we are so open with one another, being honest of our feelings, and accepting our differences, with that I really thank God for giving Ronald to me as my husband and my lifetime best friend.
