Missing HOME

I never thought in my wildest dream that I would be living my life at the other side of the world, I used to envy some people before when I heard that they went to US, I thought it's fun, they said living the American Dream, but for me it's not, when I learned that I'll be leaving my family, i became so sad, I know that I will missed all the events like birthdays, Christmas, outing etc..the first few years of my stay here was really hard, I do cried for some nights missing my family, even now I still have that moment when I will just sit and then remembered all the things in the past. But as I missed them I felt some pain too, you see I always call them but they don't even bother to talk to me, a hi and hello is hard for them to do, sometimes when I'm talking to my mom she will asked me to call again because she will watch her show first, when I will call my sister she will not even looked at the phone, I tried to sent message first through viber (group chat) like how are you stuff,  but it seems they are all busy, yes I tried to understand them maybe they are really busy with their errand, so sometimes I just shut myself up from them for a few days then go back to what I used to do to them like nothing, everytime when we chat together it makes me happy, really happy, but life is life, right? Reality check that we had our own family to looked after and care for, and I should not expect a lot from them, maybe I just missed them that's why I had my moments again.