Choices

It was the topic yesterday while we're having dinner, when Ronald came home, Elle was complaining that I did not give her IPad. Ok there's a rule for it, I only give 30minutes iPad to them (yes 30 minutes for the whole day) if they are nice, so when I asked them to study shobe immediately sit and answer while Elle start whining, I told her she answer or not it's fine with me but she still can't get the iPad for I want to see she is nice, so Elle told her story after I told my story that's where Ronald told our girls about choices in life, he said when you were born you are nice, but as you get older you see people around you there are nice and not so nice, it's your choice which one you want to pick being nice or being the bad one, I also told her that in every action she make there's always a consequence that she need to face in due time, especially when God come, we also told her that we as her parents are only here to guide and correct her but it's still her choice what she want, and she said she got it. Today when I asked them to answer she didn't whine instead follow what I asked and I told her Thank you and she just smiled.

Being a parents is not an easy task, especially to discipline your children, it takes a lot courage, firm rules and we need to work together, what we're doing is for the best of our girls, I always pray that may God help me and Ronald to guide our girls the way he wants, my only prayer is that they grow up to be good, kind, respectful and be full of love.